These are some typical complaints I hear as a certified sex and relationship therapist. Often what lies beneath these complaints is a raw sense of fear, sadness, and hopelessness. The truth is that, most likely, many things are contributing to your wife avoiding intimacy with you. The question is, what can you do about it? Who knows, a more fulfilling sex-life might be right around the corner.
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Kelly Gonsalves is a sex educator, relationship coach, and journalist. She received her journalism degree from Northwestern University, and her writings on sex, relationships, identity, and wellness have appeared at The Cut, Vice, Teen Vogue, Cosmopolitan, and elsewhere. Image by iStock. Maybe your wife isn't initiating sex, or she seems to be actively avoiding it. Maybe she rejects your sexual advances whenever you make them, and it's been a long while since you've had sex with each other. Below are a few potential reasons that might explain why your wife is not interested in you sexually. Important note: The only way to find out exactly why your wife is not interested in sex is to ask her yourself.
It’s Time to Rethink the Way You Pleasure Your Wife
According to a study published in the Journal of Sex Medicine , 87 percent of married men say they consistently experience orgasm during sex. While, only 49 percent of women say the same. Some attribute the circumstance to a difference in libido. Others point to gendered roles that unfold during sex. Fortunately, there are other, more inspiring statistics on orgasm and the apparent pleasure gap.
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